A Christmas gift plan does not need to be complicated. The easiest version is simply to give each month a job.
September: choose the meaningful gifts
Start with family gifts, long-distance gifts, and anything that may become part of a tradition. This is a good time to order The Tomte Cake if you want it ready for a November or December family night.
October: finish the logistics
Confirm addresses. Order gifts for out-of-state relatives. Decide whether you are shipping directly or wrapping items yourself. If several households are receiving the same family gift, coordinate timing now.
November: wrap, organize, and schedule
Use November for the details: cards, gift wrap, decorating supplies, and calendar dates. Choose when the family will do its main Christmas activities before school concerts, work parties, and travel consume every open evening.
December: enjoy what you planned
December should still have shopping, surprises, and spontaneity. The goal of planning ahead is not to eliminate those things. It is to keep necessary shipping and major gift decisions from dominating the month.
The best holiday timeline is one that protects time for people. Handle the logistics early, then let Christmas be Christmas.